My friend Ethan (@ethanthebasic) just said this in the replies of an interaction I had with another moot. He was being humorous but it actually spoke to my spirit a little bit. Iโve built up a small little community with other marriage/traditional/retvrn-minded people and horniness is indeed one of the common threads between us!
That, and the fact that most of us are not yet married (and that we really want to be).
I often wonder about where it starts for us. You know, like a chicken-or-egg situation. Are all of us united in our preexisting traditional urge to marry and have a family? Or are we, like many others in society today, so desperate for a sense of community and understanding that we publicize these feelings and/or traits in order to find others who share our sentiments, whether they are real or fake? I think there are elements of truth in both of those ideas.
Anyhow, it is a deep and commonly shared desire. It makes me wonder what is generally considered to be under the umbrella of โhorninessโ, especially as discussed on ~this side~ of Twitter. Is it solely related to sex? Or is it deeper? Nothing is only what it purports to be on the surface.
From my personal feelings as well as interactions with others, Iโve found the idea of โhorninessโ to transcend beyond solely the carnal craving for sexual relations. It is the craving, in the body and soul, for intimacy on the deepest plane of existence. A level of intimacy that cannot at all be achieved within the confines of hookup culture or casual dating.
Many of us are known to directly or indirectly cite Mark 10:8 on occasion:
The message has always stood, and it always will.
This way, over the modern way, always made the most sense to me. What would I get out of fake intimacy that provides no nourishment to my soul? The man who God places in my life will ultimately be someone who feeds all aspects of my being - mind, body, and soul - and I wonโt settle for the cheap imitation that society is trying to sell me.
In the meantimeโฆwe have other ways to settle our spirits.
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(More to come on this. Iโm very interested in this topic. But itโs late and I just had a little boost of energy and a drive to poast something on here so here we are lmao)
Just observing but you always have this desperate energy subconsciously. You wondered why you couldnโt attract a provider or a man. And no hate, but it could be that. So maybe in real life; that energy is intensified even more. I say this with pure intention, so you can recalibrate yourself to be the best to attract what you desire.